About British people 3—Nonchalance: How he said

British people look nonchalant

because they speak their own language

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At the airport in London,
my boots triggered for an extra security check

It took less than 10 seconds, and
the male English officer said;

"Thank you sir, have a good day yeah"

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His words sounded very nonchalant

"Thank you sir"
"Have a good day"

Both lines contained almost no emotion
They sounded quite dry

Apparently the prime reason is;

he must repeat these lines 1000000 times every day as an airport worker, and it came out of his mouth automatically

But still, I felt
this was a kind of nonchalance that only native speakers could give off

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I personally think
we tend to put too much emotion into words when speaking a foreign language

Our approach to a foreign language is analytical
We tend to interpret foreign words in a literal way

As a result
while natives say "Have a good day" habitually, automatically, without any rational/emotional process,
non-natives often add a tiny little bit of excessive emotion to the words

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There is always a gap between our words & our emotions

And we can’t fully translate our emotions into words, even in our mother tongue

Yet, at least in our first language,
we can measure the distance between words & emotions more accurately, and
have better control over the amount of emotions we inject into words