by axxxm
17/July/2025 in Kraków
These days
I find myself having difficulty engaging in conversation with others
Probably
this is the result of gaining a better understanding of myself
I was (and still am) very interested in listening to others’ stories
Because it helps me understand myself
We can’t understand ourselves without others
Getting older
means
having more of one's own unique experiences & unique realisations
So that, one’s life becomes more individual, more one's own, more unique
And now,
probably my life has become unique to a certain degree
And thus,
my understanding of myself has reached a certain point
And hence,
I feel less need to deepen it by listening to others’ stories
........That said, I still believe what I believed in my early 20s;
"Life is a process of getting to know oneself and, in order to do so, we need others"
and
“'Knowing oneself' is a life-long process. Never ends"