Sync

On a date with a woman

Or even just a meet up with a friend

I like to walk together for a bit before reaching our destination (cafe/bar/restaurant)

I always avoided setting the meeting point right in front of the place

Instead,
I always preferred meeting a little farther away,
so that, we can walk there together

There was never any theory behind it

It just felt a bit odd to meet right at the spot

But now,
I kinda understand why

I want to match the vibe by doing the same activity

When we meet a bit away,
we naturally walk side by side

By doing the same activity/walking together,
our vibe, our pace, our bio-rhythm, even our heartbeats, quietly adjust & sync with each other

This little "preparation time" or "adjustment period" must make our connection smoother

rather than meeting at the spot and go inside, and start talking straightway