20/September/2023 in Krakow
Usually I avoid eating a dish with others, especially with a woman
When going out, I always go for a drink, or coffee
No eating activity is involved
Prime reason is,
I just can't do multi-task, eating & talking at the same time
But after going out a few times, I feel some peculiar interest, as in
"I'd like to see how she eats"
It's a part of my process of "Getting to know her more"
But why does eating show something about this person?
Probably the reason is.......
As well as "sleep" & "sex",
"eating" is one of the most fundamental, strongest, desires for humans
Eating is directly connected to our animalistic desire
And so, eating activity can reveal something very animalistic in us
That's why, to hide it, we developed meticulous careful eating/dining etiquette throughout our history
But still, through these eating manners.......how she uses knife & fork, how she bites, how her body moves, how fast/slow she finishes the dish......, something about her is revealed
Something fundamental.......almost secrets that she herself is not aware of......is surely revealed